Reunited at last

A few people have asked me why I’m not blogging anymore and the general reason is because my life here in Quang Ngai has pretty much slotted into a routine of yoga, teach, eat, sleep, prepare lessons, and occasionally go out with the gang on a special occasion. I’ve watched so much Netflix over the past while I could write a blog and dissect each series I seem to fly through weekly.

Living in a country is very different to holidaying in it. I will go away from this experience with very few memories of beautiful white beaches and sipping on tropical cocktails. It’s been made up more of learning a new culture, learning a new vocation, living a new life really.

However, recently, the boyfriend came to visit and so we did manage to have two nights away from it all. Unfortunately only two because I still had to work but boy, did we make the most of it.

He arrived in Ho Chi Minh City after a total of 20 hours and one stop over. Because that was already a really tough trip for someone who hates flying (and is also a heavy smoker) I decided to meet him in HCMC and we could spend the night and then do the last leg of the flight back to QN together. We spent an awesome night reconnecting. After not seeing each other for 6 months I was like a shy virgin when we saw each other again. Needless to say that did not last long! Luckily for Dan we did it that way because the next day our flight back was delayed by 3 hours. I was just so happy to be together again that I didn’t mind that we were stuck in an airport for 6 hours drinking and chatting and catching up. It was difficult for him because technically he hadn’t yet arrived and no matter how happy he was to see me, he was still in transit and just wanted to get there! I on the other hand have literally not had such a good time in an airport before. Made me realise how long it’s been since I was sitting and chatting to someone totally comfortable being there and not wanting to be anywhere else in the world.

When we finally took off I was seated next to a lady who kept sleeping on my side of the arm chair – no sense of personal space – then at the end she puked so was obviously not feeling very well. Shame. The next big thing was the bus ride home. This was the start of the many ‘What the actual fucks’ which came out of Dan’s mouth during the holiday. The roads and the way people drive here is just ridiculous. The bus would overtake a truck in the face of oncoming traffic, there are small scooters on the side of the road, vying for space too! All just so crazy! He had quite a few more grey hairs by the time we got into town.

Because I was working and because it was so hot we spent a lot of time just chilling. The one week he was here recorded temperatures of 45 degrees – it was insane!

We went to the beach one of the days and I had told him to bring jeans and a jacket because riding here you have to cover up. It’s so hot but if even one part of your body is exposed, you will burn really quickly. Anyway, it was so hot he couldn’t bear the thought of jeans so we covered him up in my sarong and off we went. Usually the beach is quiet and chilled during the week and it’s a good way to relax and chill out. Dan could not believe the warmth of the water. It literally doesn’t feel any different from leaving the land to putting your body in. Not my cup of tea but it’s still nice to get all salty and wet.

Chilling amongst all the plastic! Luckily the beach itself is very clean with regular beach clean ups taking place!
Dan all geared up for our long drive to the beach







Our one splurge of the holiday was that we hired a car and drove to Hoi An for a night. I recently visited Hoi An with a friend and we drove on a scooter there. NEVER AGAIN!!! I really thought that my life might end that trip. It’s the same road as we came back from the airport on so its the trucks and the busses and everyone vying for space on the road. And when you are a mosquito and the thing next to you is a dinosaur, its pretty scary. All that would maybe even be ok if there wasn’t the strongest wind trying to push you into the mouth of the dinosaur. So driving was great. Except that Dan had to drive, on the wrong side of the road, in that traffic. Considering how much he moans about everything I think he did a sterling job. And to actually navigate that road and all the stuff on it – I take my hat off to him, I really do.

So we stayed in a VERY fancy resort for the one night. It was between the beach and the river so had a view of both. We basically had a full day and a half there and we spent a lot of it on the beach and by the pool drinking cocktails and relaxing. In the night we went to Ancient Town and walked around for a bit – the lanterns and lights there are just so so stunning. Then when we got back we went back to the beach and stayed there talking til about 1:30. I even skinny dipped! To do it in water that feels like bath water is pretty damn surreal.

I’m glad we got to go away because it showed the vast difference between how the tourists see Viet Nam and how it really is.  To see so many white faces on the beach and people speaking with Australian accents (pretty much everyone at the resort was Ozzie) was just crazy.  Dan found the experience really insane.  He struggled with the heat but loved the fact that you can smoke anywhere.  He struggled with the road rules or lack of them (and never did get over that).  He loved the food but hated the beer.  He loved that whiskey is so cheap here but hated that wine costs the same as whiskey.  (And it’s not even good).  He loved the visit but hated the fact that he was leaving me behind.  😦  It was amazing having him here but made me super homesick.  Hopefully I’ll be getting a visit soon from someone else near and dear to me! 😉

The Faraway Waterfall

Last week our crew decided that the adventure for the week would be to go and visit one of the beautiful waterfalls in the mountains in our area.  We left early to miss the traffic which is lucky because what we thought would be an hour journey turned into 2 hours each way.  This was my first long-haul on the motorbike and it was tough going.  Did not realise that one could feel sore in all sorts of funny places while just riding a motorbike but I have lived to tell that tale, and can attest to that exact fact!  Anyway, once out of the city the drive was really beautiful and totally worth it!

Stopping on the way to buy beer because what’s a day out without it!


Notice the difference between how the foreigners dress to ride on a bike and the Vietnamese!

Everybody was tasked with bringing something for the feast.  I made mung bean curry.  Nobody even knew what that was until I presented it but it got high ratings.  Because our crew is a bunch of Saffas it was not a feast without a braai (barbecue) and I was quite amazed to see that even though we all came on bikes and had to pack light, a grid came along as well as pork and chicken and what would a braai be without potato salad?  It arrived in a big-ass pot – still not entirely sure how they managed to transport it.

The couple who brought the big-ass potato salad – now you tell me where you think they have it on that bike?!

The terrain was very rocky and hard to find a comfortable place to sit, yet we managed to find wood, light a fire and still cook up an amazing braai feast.

The braai! We managed to cook 5 pork rashers, 10 chicken wings and some meatballs and rolls and eggs before the fire died. Pretty impressive survivor style missions. P.S. The eggs were already boiled, we were just warming them up on the fire.
No table, no stable surface, everything was either eaten straight from the container or stuffed into a roll for eating.

Footage of the big-ass pot of potato salad! And my awesome mung bean curry!

The waterfall itself was amazing and the water crystal clear and cool.  Nothing like spending the day in nature with the sound of a waterfall gushing down in the background.

Only one of our crew managed to get to the back of the waterfall – it was coming down pretty forcefully and no-one else felt safe enough to do it.  But from the outside looking in, it looked amazing!

Again, I sadly have to add that this beautiful site in nature had so much rubbish on the rocks!  This is not something one would find in South Africa and England!  We did our bit and picked up after ourselves, as well as picked up as much old rubbish as we could fit into the bags we had.  Luckily the rubbish had not yet actually managed to find its way into the actual waterfall pool but if enough people go there and leave their shit lying around, that will be the result.

All in all, an awesome, relaxing day spent with fun friends and lots of laughs.

Thien An Pagoda

There is a Buddhist temple on the top of a mountain just outside Quang Ngai which some friends and I visited recently.  We went on the same day as we visited the Son My Massacre site and I am really glad we did the temple afterwards as it was a complete change of energy (for the good) which was very much needed!

We rode our bikes up a very steep mountain (gone are the days when I would just walk up a mountain like that without a second thought – it’s just too hot here)!

The temple site is really big and so tranquil and peaceful with beautiful Buddhist music being piped around the entire place.

The only complaint I have is that even up there, there are vendors selling plastic children’s toys.  Totally unnecessary.  Lots of amazing jewellery too though and I finally got the keyring for my bike and house keys that I wanted.  I was waiting to find something special and I found a beautifully carved wooden one of Shiva for only about £1 (R16).

I definitely want to go back there again with a book and spend a tranquil morning read and meditating.

Son My Massacre site

Quang Ngai does not have much to offer in terms of tourist destinations.  One of its greatest attractions is the Son My Massacre site.  Attraction is probably not the right word to use but I felt that because I live here and because it is the first thing that comes up when you Google ‘places to go in Quang Ngai’ it was worth spending some time there.  It was with some trepidation though, as I read up about it before going so knew that it was  going to be a heart-wrenching experience.

This was the biggest massacre of civilians during the Viet Nam war.  The Americans had been told that the opposition were hiding in the village and to rout them out, kill them and destroy all their weapons.  What they found instead, was a sleepy little village, just waking up for breakfast and the only men there were old men who were too old to fight in the war.  What proceeded was carnage.  They killed and burned everything in the village. Women protecting their children, children running away, livestock, crops.  Soldiers who expressed bewilderment at what was clearly not what they were expecting to face, were threatened with death themselves.

Eventually, a helicopter pilot who flew in on the scene and saw what was happening, managed to rescue 10 villagers and he himself threatened the lives of the American’s trying to stop him.  He commanded his men to shoot the Americans if he was not allowed to flee with those he rescued.  So, so, so hectic!  Over 500 villagers were murdered and only 10 saved by the pilot.

Lots of heart-wrenching photos like this one! In fact, this one is mild! It was the photographer who took these photos who finally showed them to the world and tried to get justice but unfortunately none of the people in command who ordered the attack were ever brought to justice or served any time for these atrocities.
An old water carrier system as it was at the time of the massacre.

What remains of the village is still there.  Burnt down houses and one house that has been rebuilt to show how they looked at the time.  The energy there is not great.  Horrible to see such things but on the same hand humbling to experience history at its rawest.

Beach and island vibes

After we got back from our holiday it was finally time to hit the beach in Quang Ngai!  Because I only got my motorbike the day before we left for our holiday I hadn’t had the opportunity to make the beach mission yet.  It’s about a 25 minute drive from my house to the beach.  Luckily it’s mainly one straight road but it does also entail a very busy bridge and 2 roundabouts.  But if anything was going to get me on that bike and facing my fears, it was the beach!!!

I’m happy to report that the beach is divine.  Long, white sandy beach with lots of little restaurants where the beer is cold and the food is cheap.  Will be spending many, many happy days here for sure!

That night over dinner, our crew decided that we should spend a night on the island of Ly Son.  It’s a small island off the coast of Quang Ngai which apparently has a good vibe and an awesome beach.  I was sold.

We set off very early the next morning to get to the port to catch the ferry.  Another very long bike ride, which I am happy to report, I am getting the hang of!  Still terrifying and nerve-wracking but confidence was rising!    When we arrived we found out that you need a passport to go to the island.  We are still not entirely sure why – we were not leaving the country?! When we tried to reason with the officials it was clear that this was not negotiable.  No passport, no go.  Two of our party didn’t have their passports so they had to go all the way home to fetch them.  Rule Number 1 – never leave home without your passport as you never know when you will need it.  The rest of us passed the time by drinking beer.  It was only 8:30 in the morning but we were on holiday!

Waiting patiently at the busy port restaurant. Looks like we are at a children’s party with all the small plastic tables and chairs but this is the norm here!
While waiting, saw for the first time how ice is transported in VN. Huge chunks of ice are transported down a chute (not sure if you can make out the chute in this picture). Then they are put onto the back of this makeshift trailer which is, of course, on the back of a bike, then taken to their destination. Destination can’t be far as the ice would melt but definitely innovative. You know how they say to never put ice into drinks when in a third world country. Well … let’s just say this is nigh impossible because nothing stays cold. So, I’ve been consuming A LOT of ice and all still good I’m happy to report!

Eventually us and all our bikes were on the ferry!  Yes, it seems like I was going to have to get out of my newly discovered comfort zone and ride my bike on a tiny, busy island!

Me and my bike getting ready for departure
Seems we weren’t the only ones with the same idea!

Such an awesome 1 1/2 journey.  I spent most of the journey outside on the deck though as apparently the Vietnamese don’t travel so well on the sea.  In fact, there are dustbins at the end of every aisle and they are not for rubbish!

When we arrived we were accosted by yet another port official and basically frogmarched to a little office where we had to, once again, produce our passports and let them know at which hotel we were staying.  I don’t think tourism is very big on Ly Son.  We went looking for somewhere to eat lunch and were actually turned away by some restaurants, saying they were too full (even though they weren’t).  I’m not sure if it’s the language barrier or what but that was not a good first experience.

Eating these were an experience I would rather not relive. I suppose the taste was OK but it felt like I was eating snot!

Finally, once all the admin was done and our tummies were full, we headed off on our bikes to the beach.  I was so disappointed when I got there.  The beach and water and rocks themselves are stunningly beautiful.  Water so blue and clear and warm its mesmerising.  But the beach was filthy – so much litter!  Anyway, we made the best of it.  Walked to the famous cave which was carved out over years and years from the volcano on the island and spent the evening there playing music, finding driftwood and making a fire and just generally chilling out having a good time.  Because it was TET holiday the beach was filled with people and the trash just accumulated more and more as the night went on.  At times it felt like we were in a zoo or in a freak show.  Everybody stared at us and anybody who had a baby would come and actually sit down by us (I am not sure if they thought because they had a baby it gave them the license to come and sit there because we would think the baby is cute).  The funniest was when we brought out the poi’s and frisbee out and started playing.  All the cameras came out!

The next day we got up early to go and watch the sunrise on the beach.  That was very beautiful but too soon the sun was up and the carnage that was the beach was as apparent as the day before.  Luckily we went for a bike ride up the mountain to see the volcano which was spectacular.  The island is known for growing garlic and there are bright garlic fields for miles around.  The smell of the garlic in the streets is so powerful.

View from inside the cave
The view from the top of the volcano
View of the port at Ly Son

Crystal clear water

Just over 24 hours after we arrived, we started the long journey home, sun-burned and tired.  Was an amazing little excursion and is definitely a place I would like to visit again.  Perhaps this time with a team of zero-waste fundis’.

One night in Da Nang

Every month the centre that I work for gives their teachers a night in Da Nang which they pay for.  So when I planned my trip to Da Nang I had also gotten an extra free night through the centre at a hotel which they paid for.  Because of this, I left a day earlier than the others and spent a night alone in Da Nang.

The train trip from Hue to Da Nang is most definitely the most beautiful train trip I have ever been on.

Train ride back from Hue to Da Nang. Very beautiful. Also, very scary as the train goes through the mountains and the tracks are literally embedded in the mountain so if you look down, its scary!

I must say that it was quite weird being all on my own again after spending 6 days with such a large, vibrant group of people. And I felt a bit sad and lonely spending the time on my own in what is such a beautiful city. I walked around most of the day taking in the sights and in the evening I went to a Western bar and ate a burger!! Being in Hue and Da Nang really made me realise just how few non-Asian people there are in Quang Ngai. I have only once in the time I have been here seen a white person in the streets of Quang Ngai, whereas in Hue and Da Nang there are so many foreigners. A lot of things were closed for TET in Da Nang but I was amazed by all the art installations in the city. Truly breathtaking.  At night everything was lit up – it looked like a city made entirely of Chinese lanterns.

Best street food I’ve eaten so far. Rice paper on the fire with veggies, mince and egg cooked into it. Once cooked folded over like a taco with mayo and chilli sauce! Price – about 30p or R5.
More street food – might not look great but tasted amazing!
Da Nang – so full of colour!

Huge dragon feature on the bridge in Da Nang.
The city of Da Nang – so beautiful.
The entrance to my hotel.

Our holiday in Hue

My TET holiday ended up being completely different to what I imagined! The plan was for me to catch the train with the other group as they had to go to Da Nang first to get to the place they were going for their holiday.  As the train was leaving at 3:30 in the morning we decided not to sleep but to have a party instead.  So we had a huge potjie dinner which was amazing and then afterwards we all went to karaoke.  Karaoke is huge in Viet Nam, you see it advertised everywhere.  And the interesting thing about it here is that each group has their own room so you can play your own playlist and you control the music.  It’s obviously better with a bigger group (which we were) so we had so much fun.  Then it was time to go.   It ended up being a mad rush because when we tried to hail a taxi (by knocking on the windows of sleeping taxi guys – who are meant to work 24/7, none of them would help us) so we had to get on bikes with all our gear and fly to the station.  We made it with minutes to spare, only to be told that the train was delayed and ended up waiting 2 hours on the station.  Vietnamese time is pretty similar to South African time!  The trains are hectic too because if your train is on Platform 3 there is no such thing as a bridge or an elevator to get to that platform.  You need to walk across the tracks and then get onto the train from the track (no such thing as a platform actually).  Straight from the train track onto the train!

Anyway, during the potjie part of the evening, the group decided that it was a very good idea for me to cancel my holiday alone in Da Nang and go with them instead to Hue (pronounced ‘where’).  They had a hotel booked and everything they had planned could include me.  I was able to cancel my hostel booking at the last minute so I thought why not just go with the flow.  Those who know me, know this is a very big thing that I just did there.

So when we got to Da Nang (the train trip was 3 hours) we still had another 3 hour journey to Hue.  But eventually we got there and had 6 awesome days exploring.  It was so good to finally be out and about seeing some of the beauty and history of Viet Nam.

We spent our first day exploring the Imperial City which was our only cultural visit of the holiday so glad we did it.

The Imperial City is a walled palace within the citadel of the city of Huế, the former imperial capital of Vietnam.
Inside the Imperial City.
Jarrod getting up close and personal with one of the statues.
The gardens inside the Imperial City. Amazing how big it was – took us about 4 hours to walk around the whole place.
The group dressed up and played at being royalty.
Playing silly buggers with hats!

We also had a beach day.  My first visit to the beach since I got here so I was super excited to get my tan on.  The beach was beautiful.  Wild and remote.  It felt very much like being in Zanzibar.

Our beach day in Hue.

Beach scenery – reminded me so much of Zanzibar. The water was amazing and I really appreciated it because apparently in summer here its like bath water – yuck!
Food left out for the ancestors in preparation for TET.

New Year’s Eve was fun.  We watched the fireworks from the 12th floor of our hotel and because Hue is so small we walked around and stopped in at many places for a drink, meeting new people and socialising.  We got to bed really late, only to be woken up really early by all the New Years Day celebrations.  Out on the streets the streets artists were out in full force.  There were dragon dances everywhere, drums and cymbols going, bright red and yellow outfits.  The traffic was stopped as these re-enactments continued throughout the day.  This was when I truly felt that I was part of something very different and beyond anything I have experienced before.  A true Vietnamese experience.

TET holiday celebrations. On New Years Day the streets were alive with artists performing various ritual enactments.
3 on a bike! Luckily I didn’t have to drive while in Hue!
The group at dinner
One of my many delicious Vietnamese meals I enjoyed on the trip.
The view from the pool at the hotel.

Finally mobile!

I got my wheels this week!!!  I wish that I could have trainer wheels attached but sadly no.  No one here cares that you don’t know how to ride a motorbike.  They show you the basics and then you are on your own.  It’s quite funny that I learned to drive a car first, then a bicycle (in London) and now a motorbike.  How I wish I could have all the safety of metal surrounding me of a car, these days.  So, learning to drive the motorbike was actually super easy.  It’s an automatic so there really is nothing to it, as long as you can control your balance and how fast to go.  My problem is that in the face of danger I usually go faster – really need to learn to stop doing that.  The real danger is all the hundreds of other people on bikes on the road, plus they drive on the other side of the road here.  It is hair-raising to say the least.  Not only are there other bikes on the road but all the cars here are massive Hi-lux type vehicles or enormous trucks.  Everyone hoots ALL the time and its enough to give one a panic attack.  I am looking forward to getting on the open road and opening her up to the more than the 20 km/h I’ve been doing so far.







From tomorrow I will be on holiday for two weeks.  Here in Viet Nam we are about to embark on their biggest holiday of the year – TET.  It’s their New Year – they celebrate Lunar New Year – and it promises to be an epic experience.  I am going to Da Nang which is the third largest city in Viet Nam after Ho Chi Minh City (Saigon) in the South and Ha Noi in the North.  Da Nang is kinda in the middle – Central Viet Nam.  I’ll be staying in a backpackers right on the beach so my next blog promises to hold lots of news and even photos!!!  Thanks to my cousin James for advising on how to do that.  You would never say I was a digital project manager in my previous life! Oooooops! 😉

I know a lot about TET because its been the main theme in all my classes for the last couple of weeks now.  It’s a time to sweep out the old year and all the negativity and prepare for the new, hopefully successful year.  To prepare for this, people clean their houses and buy new clothes which they will only wear on New Years Day.  It’s very important to make sure that the first guest you welcome into your home in the new year, is successful, preferably wealthy and a good person as this will set the tone for the year to come.  Some people leave their house just before midnight and go back in just after, to make sure that the wrong ‘guest’ is not the first people to set foot into their home.  Flowers are very important for this festival and I can attest to this as I have seen truckloads of marigolds and peach and apricot blossoms being trucked all over the place.  People place flowers underneath trees in the street with sticks of incense leading up to this occasion as well – these are gifts to the ancestors.  Much food is prepared and the general feeling of this holiday is about family coming together and enjoying each other’s company.

I’ve been in Viet Nam just shy of a month now.  It feels far longer.  I have never been so alone and isolated in my entire life.  I wouldn’t say I am lonely (yet) but I fear that the age-gap between me and the other non-Asian people here might become an issue.  I have finally learnt to be responsible – people drink here and get on their scooters which I will definitely not be doing, but then instead of going out I would rather just stay at home, because what’s a good meal and good company without a drink too.  I might just have to change that philosophy if I want to actually get out at all!  I feel that I am going to be doing a lot of inner reflection in the coming months and really have to face who I am and what I want from my life going forward.

Everyone drives around with these masks on. At first I thought it was really weird but its such a good idea actually as it means no muggies or dust and sand can get into your mouth. With googles/glasses and helmut, your face is really protected. Wearing a helmet like we would wear in the UK or SA would not work here – it’s just too hot!
My expedition to the supermarket. See all those bikes parked? Mine is one of them!!!

The daily grind :)

As I said in my previous blog my life consists of a 3 kilometre radius until I get my scooter.  This might seem boring to some but every day brings a new experience.

A couple of days ago I was sitting at the dining room table planning my lessons and this delivery guy walks into the house and starts depositing a whole lot of groceries on the floor.  I knew they couldn’t be for us.  So I tried to explain this to him.  What transpired was a 5 minute conversation where neither of us could understand the other, yet we managed to understand each other.  I asked to see the invoice so I could check the address, he showed me, I showed him that the address on the slip was not our address and then he asked me if I could keep the goods until 2pm when the neighbours would be back.  All done with hand gestures while both of us chatting away in our respective languages.  It was really funny!

What was not so funny was that remember I told you that I felt like there was a small child living in the cupboard downstairs trying to get out, well today I found out what is living in there as two big rats nudged open the door and jumped out!!! Worse is that I could still hear noises once they were gone which means there are probably babies in there!  I emailed the school and they had better to something about it pronto!

Yesterday was the first really hot day since I’ve been here so walking to and from the supermarket was a real challenge.  I looked like I had a 60 minute cardio workout when I got home.  First time I had a cold shower in the day – I feel lots of those will be happening in the near future (sorry to any Capetonians reading this) :(.  But if you need a long, hot shower, my door is always open!  Everyday I have so many people on their bikes offering me a ride.  I am not sure if I would need to pay at the end of said journey so I just smile and shake my head.  The kids always shout ‘Hello Teacher’ even though I’m not their teacher but I guess, why else would I be here.

Teaching these kids is teaching me a lot.  I am learning to think on my feet so much!  No matter how much I prepare a lesson, things crop up which means the lesson often doesn’t go according to plan.  I am learning patience, especially with the younger kids who I have so much respect for as they sit through an hour and a half practising the same thing over and over in a lesson.  So I aim to make the lessons as exciting as possible.  One of my class’s themes is At the Supermarket and the main words they are learning are melon, lemon, noodles, onion, cucumber, cereal.  I need to teach them that while you can say ‘a lemon’, you can’t say ‘a cereal’ and for that you need to say ‘some cereal’.  They have flashcards for these words but I also went and bought all the items so that (a) they can associate the flashcard with the real thing and (b) we can play a supermarket game where the one student is the shopkeeper and the other students can ask for things.  While those are the main words to learn I can also incorporate other words they have learnt previously so I will also be bringing along juice, eggs, bread and a few other things.  It’s really challenging teaching them the actual rules of English because their English isn’t good enough to grasp concepts and understand what I am saying without the help of imagery.  Also because I am new to this I don’t have a vast well of knowledge and I am just drawing from what I think will work.  So I may not be the best teacher around but I know how to show these kids a fun time! 😉  It’s very rewarding to walk into the classroom and have all the kids clearly excited to see me.  Sometimes some of my games get them really riled up but luckily it doesn’t seem to matter and its the Vietnamese teacher/teacher assistant’s job to quieten them down.  I like that I don’t have to discipline, just teach.

Once I get my scooter and can spend more time out of the house I probably won’t be spending as much time preparing lessons but by then I will have stocked up on lots of materials and fun ideas that I can use, re-use and adjust depending on the age and lesson.

The other thing that happened a few days ago, was that my phone broke.  It just stopped charging.  I tried it with various chargers and none of them worked so it was obvious that was the issue.  But now my phone is on 8% and I need to find a place that can repair my phone.  So basically I cannot rely on Google maps.  I have to do this one alone!  I look on Maps before I leave from my laptop to get a general idea of where to go and thereafter start my, what turned out to be a very long, but completely successful venture.  The first shop I went to sold iPhones.  I explained in sign language that it wasn’t charging.  So he also tried and ascertained my prognosis was correct.  So then I needed to find out if they do repairs so we eventually resorted to talking over Google translate.  In that way I found out that they don’t do repairs so he wrote down the address of another place (luckily I was clever and had pen and notepad in my bag).  And, the address he gave me was of a road I know well!  I’ve been noting the names of the streets in my head every time I go out and this paid off!  And I even found the street based on having done so much walking around in the last while.  I can definitely take ‘directionally challenged’ off my list of weaknesses these days.  Then I got to the place (and believe me it was not close by, I must have walked about 4kms all told by now). It looked very similar to the other place so I thought that was a lost cause and then I saw, about 2 shops down, a shop that looked like it was a repair shop.  You must imagine that NOTHING is in English.  In the big cities everything is in English but not here. So in I went.  Again explaining my charger story in proficient sign language.  Them going Ahhhh, showing me a plug to put the charger into, me saying No, that isn’t the issue, but yes please, try it and see that it won’t work.  Once they had ascertained that it was a charging problem, he did the whole cleaning out of the insert point – even had a little blasting machine – but nothing worked.  Then he showed me that he would need to replace that part by showing me what he would replace it with.  I said Dong? (Vietnamese currency). He showed me how much it would cost with notes he had.  150 000 Dong to replace and I must come back in 1 hour.  I came back in half an hour and it was done and it cost me R80 or £5.  How’s that for service?  I was well impressed.  Then I still had to get home on my own because even though fixed it had hardly charged by the time I collected it.  Anyway, the walk home was long but at least I had achieved something.  I had serious doubts before I left home that morning that I would even FIND a shop, let alone three and then have the matter resolved.  Feeling accomplished!

My next challenge is to find a beauty salon that does waxing – it’s going to be very interesting to try and show them what I need doing, especially when I get to explaining that I need a hollywood!

I’m loving that I can start every day with yoga practice.  It is so good for my soul and of course my muscles which are getting back into shape.  I am grateful and happy.

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Good Morning Viet Nam!

I can’t believe it has only been 2 months since I last posted on my blog.  So much has happened since then!  When I last wrote I didn’t even have a teaching job secured and yet, here I am, over a week into my teaching stint in Viet Nam!

I have had so many conflicting emotions since I arrived here.  I wasn’t sure what to expect and had no expectations, which in hindsight is good, because it was such a hardcore culture shock as it was, that if I had had expectations, the conflict would have been more huge than it was when I got here.

The first major change was the weather of course.  All the locals here think it’s freezing and are wearing jerseys and boots and things – at a mild 25 degrees I am in my element and embracing it as the temperature and humidity here apparently soar to unbearable heights.  The weather is already not doing anything great for my hair but at least now I don’t even have to TRY and straighten it because there is just no point.  Curly is my new state.

Not knowing anyone and not knowing how to get anywhere was a real challenge in the beginning.  I am not teaching at a school but rather at an English centre which means the English being taught is extra English for the kids.  So I teach every day but only in the evenings for one or two hours and the majority of my teaching takes place over the weekend – Saturday and Sunday are really busy and at the moment I am teaching 21 classes a week ranging from 4 to 12 year olds.  The teaching is going well!  I am putting a lot of effort into lesson preparation which takes up quite a bit of time.  But time is something I have so much of at the moment!  Because I only teach in the evenings my days are free.  Because there is no such thing as public transport here and the language barrier is just that – a complete barrier to any understanding between me and the locals, the only exploring I can do at the moment is on foot.  It took me a week to find the actual supermarket where there are tills and everything but it’s a 2.5 km walk one way and while this is doable now, while the weather is still mild, it would be pretty much suicidal to try and attempt this once the temperatures start rising.  So I do need to invest in a scooter (even a bicycle would be silly in the heat) so that is something I need to organise.  Everyone here rides scooters and it’s amazing to see.  Women in high heels and smartly dressed ride their scooters.  Families of 5 all manage to organise themselves onto one scooter and everyone rides around hooting merrily.  You can imagine my shock at all the hooting when I first arrived.  No-one hoots in London, and if they do, it’s seen as very impolite.  But apparently here it is the norm and completely acceptable.  So is going through a red light if you are turning apparently.  They actually have the green man light for pedestrians to cross but woe betide if you just cross – it’s still a dodge-ems game no matter what the lights are telling you.  However, no one drives fast and it all seems to work.

I am living in a massive house with one other person, who, surprise surprise, is also South African.  He is 24 and has been teaching here for over a year.  I feel like I was told there was going to be 4 teachers living in the house (but that could also have been a lost in translation thing) and so was a bit surprised to learn that it was only going to be the two of us.  We are literally the only non-Vietnamese people for miles around.  He works at a few other centres (he has a scooter and can get around) and because he has been here for a while has a support base.  I have met some of his friends once so far and I am sure will again but he is often out of the house on his own mission so a lot of the time I am in this big old house on my own.  Well, not entirely on my own.  I have seen a few rats, loads of gheckos and there is something living in the cupboard downstairs that sounds like it’s a small child trying to get out!! (Trying not to think too much about that!).  I am hand washing my own washing at the moment because the lady he goes to lives too far away for me to walk to and at this stage I don’t know of anywhere closer.

My room is about as big as my little house in Noordsig was – it’s enormous!  So I have started a new daily regime.  First of all every morning Dan and I Skype.  The time difference is 5 hours so when I am waking up he is going to bed!!!  If he goes to bed at 2, that is 7 my time which is perfect.  We Skype for an hour then he passes out and I get up and start my day.  Which as of 3 days ago starts with a peaceful 30 minutes of yoga, then a 30 minute cardio session followed by a meditation session that lasts as long as I want it to.  After that I have breakfast, go out for supplies if I need to, and then settle in to some lesson preparation.  I panicked at first thinking I would be bored but I’m not.  I am loving the quiet solitude and space and warmth that is allowing me to get healthy again.

The food here is cheap and interesting.  I have had some amazing, tasty food and I have also had some dishes that I could not stomach due to the consistency and lack of taste.  Most things are cheap here!  0.60p for a beer or R10 (not even sure if that is cheap in SA anymore but it’s certainly cheap in the UK)!  Cigarettes are extremely cheap at around £1 for a packet (not that I’m smoking but my housemate does) and so is eating out.  Eating out is an experience.  First of all you can smoke anywhere here and when eating out people just throw their butts on the floor along with anything else that forms part of the meal.  We had a clam chowder dish the one night and I was told to throw the shells on the floor.  Beer cans too.  Once your party is done they just come and clear it up!

The people are super friendly and I have become quite the local already as I walk my route to the supermarket most days.  Everybody shouts out hello (unfortunately that’s where the conversation ends) but I do feel like quite the film star here as people do stare and wave and smile.

Working at the centre was also very challenging at first.  Even though its an English centre and all the teachers can speak English, their English is not great (and I see now why they employ foreign teachers to help out because the kids would not get far learning English from their Vietnamese teachers).  Their pronunciation is SO different and often it takes me ages to understand what they are saying and vice versa.  But I am learning to speak slowly and everybody just takes it in their stride when the communication is lacking.  We all just try and try until the penny drops.  Teaching the kids is different every day.  Some days the class goes SO well and I really feel like they enjoyed it and I made a difference.  And then other days it’s just mediocre.  But I put so much effort into preparing each class that I am not beating myself up about it when it doesn’t go well.  There is a syllabus they are following and some days no matter how hard you try, you cannot make it interesting – especially when you are covering the same content for the 5th time!  The younger kids are by far the hardest to teach as they don’t understand and they get fidgety quickly but they are so cute!  Luckily the Vietnamese teacher stays in the class so they often explain to the kids when I can’t get through to them.  It requires a lot of thinking on my feet and it’s very challenging, especially when the kids don’t want to participate, but it also feels like I’ve been doing this for a million years and I am on such a high each evening after classes are done!

I can see why teachers need so many breaks though!  I am SO looking forward to my first break which is in just under a month’s time.  Also because I can use that opportunity to go and explore a bit of Viet Nam.  But more about that in a future post.

For now I am just so grateful that I am settling in and starting to see the positives in the space that I am now in.  I am going to embrace it and use this time to be the best teacher I can be, and the best me I can be.  Last year I felt I was becoming a very negative, angry person and I can already feel that this environment and all the positives I will be putting into my life and my health, will only benefit me and put me on the road to being the positive, at peace person I want to be.

P.S.  Because transferring photos from my phone and laptop to WordPress is such a nightmare I won’t be posting many pics here but mainly on Insta – you can follow me there – mariafkyle.

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